As I was looking into this, I found this article that has sparked my interest- Flow of affective information between communicating brains. Let's discuss, shall we?
Humans evolved as a social species. Communication, through both verbal and non-verbal channels has been an important driver for increasing brain size in humans. In fact, the development of proto-language is thought to have ramped up brain size in human ancestors from 750,000 to 50,000 years ago, with a huge jump in brain size at the 50,000 year mark. Proto-language is the combination of gestures and one to two words that can be interpreted by others to create action (things like "look there" and "let's go"). But, the key here is to understand the vocalization and the action- the "receiver" must know how to interpret the signals coming from the speaker. This reception cabability requires us to interpret not just the meaning of the words that are spoken, but the context in which they are presented. If I say "let's go" and smile, you get a much different meaning than if I say "let's go" and frown.Here's where things get really cool (and complicated). When I smile, a series of neurons become active within my brain associated with smiling- both the motor neurons involved in the action of smiling, and the emotional neurons involved in feeling happiness. When you see me smile, your neural network associated with smiling becomes activated as well through what is called "mirror activation". This happens because, in your attempt to interpret my emotions, you need to feel those same emotions. Furthermore, not only are you trying to interpret my emotions, but you're also trying to predict my future actions, and the best way to predict another's actions is to actually feel what they're feeling. The old saying about "walking a mile in someone else's shoes" really rings true.
How do we know all of this? The study above is a really great place to start. These researchers looked at brain activation in six different couples who had been involved in romantic relationships for at least a year. The reason they did this with romantically linked couples is because the flow of affective (emotional) information is stronger between couples who are romantically linked than it is between strangers (thoughts on this in just a little bit). While one partner, the sender, was asked to think about differrent emotions and "emerse in them" (basically not to pose emotions, but recall true emotional states and allow the facial expressions to follow), the other partner, the perceiver, was asked to look at the emotions (by recording) and interpret the emotions felt by the sender. Both individuals were scanned using fMRI durring their assigned task. The fMRI scans of the senders were then analysed for emotion-related activity and the perceiver's scans were analysed for activity that reflected the emotion-related activity of the sender. In addition to looking for reflective activity, the researchers also analysed the scans to discover the time course of the flow of information from the sender's brain to the perceiver's brain.
What the researchers found was that the emotional state of the sender could be predicted simply by looking at the activity in the perceiver's brain. More specifically, activity in the parietal, temporal, frontal and insular brain regions specifically reflected the emotional network used by the sender to convey affect. An even more amazing finding was that early emotional information from the sender was also reflected in the perceiver. On top of that, there was a time delay at the onset of emotion from the sender to the perceiver (up to 8s.) that reduced with viewing time (down to 0s.).
Ok, so what does all of this mean? We already "knew" that non-verbal communication is an important part of communication as a whole. Now we see that, as someone perceives communication they interpret the information with a network of brain structures and that perception evolves over time as the emotion is communicated. Now, this study did use couples who were romantically linked for a year to four years (the average was two years). So, granted, these individuals were probably a little more "in tune" with one another than people who are strangers, and many might see this as a fault of the study, but think about it this way- who is the most important person to understand emotionally? If you can't interpret how your sexual partner is feeling, you're probably not getting any, right? When we think about how language (specifically proto-language) developed, it wasn't about communicating how to perform technical skills (i.e. hunting, tool making, etc.), our closest evolutionary relatives can do that without language. Language is about relating to the social group- communicating "who did what to whom" is an important part of social and sexual selection- so of course our neural networks would become tuned to those people who we deem "most important". A couple of interesting follow-ups for this experiment would be to see how people react to someone they find attractive, but not someone that they have any emotional relationship with, or how people perceive famous actors/actresses as they perform emotions (although, this would require brain scans of the actors/actresses as well...).
All of this information is great, but really, the most important part of any piece of information is how you use it. While strangers may perceive your emotions somewhat differently than people you know, strong emotions still cause activation in neural networks of the perceiver. This is vitally important for people who want to communicate information to another and "have their point heard". Maybe you're interviewing for a job or presenting information in front of a group of people- this study simply reminds us that HOW we communicate is just as important (if not more important) as WHAT we communicate.
